Why exploration proceeds in steps, limitlessness, and changing behavior first

Frederic observes that spirituality is about everything, yet it is learned by focusing on one aspect at a time, and wonders whether it would be more useful to focus on everything at once.

The Wonders say he could not do it - his mind can barely accept the construct that he is more than what he is - and note that some individuals have used chemicals to try to view existence in full, with the result that, like a bulb shining too bright, their minds burst.

This is why they have taken humanity through step-by-step choices and awarenesses: it was time to integrate, then to assimilate, then spirituality, and now conscious living, each step being the best humanity can do at that point.

Frederic asks whether the number of steps ever ends; the Wonders say existence is limitless, citing the third defining statement, 'I am limitless, my choices reflect my limitlessness' - it does not say he is limited and will expand a little, it says he is limitless first and foremost, and because he cannot accept that, each choice reflects the degree to which he allows himself to be limitless.

Frederic connects this back to his opening question about needing an identity, recognizing that holding on to it restrains his limitlessness, and adds that from a human perspective he might not want to be completely limitless but would want different limits - to which the Wonders say then choose those.

They recommend their just-completed series 'Thou Shalt Not Pass', which speaks directly to changing behavior first, which then changes psychologies and belief structures, which allow further behavioral change.

In the past they taught changing psychology and belief structures, and people tried, but the difficulty was that they were not living consciously - and living consciously simply means living in the moment, which requires changing behavior.

Following the workshop's suggestions, he would live more in the moment, choose freely, become conscious of his choices and of the limits he imposes, and then change behavior to expand the psychologies that hold him within those limits and prevent him from choosing another.